Relationship Advices

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For all my thinking I came up with: the need to be famous about it, and tell people what they should be doing. I found a nice community which takes the “dating and relationship expert” out of the equation, and gets the users to give and receive advice about dating, sex, relationships, and love both in text as well as in video modes. Maybe this the answer for “dating/relationship expert problem once and for all”

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I’m inquiring what credentials are out there to make anyone a dating and relationship expert. I’m in a relationship now, which is great and stable etc… but I really have no idea how I got to this point. Meeting girls, and moreover starting a relationship with the girls you do meet is a hard mix of voodoo magic, alchemy, luck, and personal charm. In that order people. Seriously. What I can’t tolerate is people taking advantage of other people’s insecurities about the subject to advance their personal celebrity, or “expert” status agenda. If having a pulse makes you a relationship expert then I guess I’m wrong, but what makes these people better than the rest of us?

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I like watching these so-named “dating and relationship experts” on the web or on tv. Where do these people come up with their nonsense??? I get the feeling that if you belt out crap with enough conviction, that people will think you are authoritative on the subject.

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10 Things Never To Say To A Guy

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1. When will I see you again? You’ll see him when you see him. If he wants to see|meet you again, he’ll call. If not, next. You don’t have time for anyone that doesn’t have time for you.

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2. Why didn’t you call? There’s only one answer|respond to this question: Because he didn’t want|desire to!!! What you’re really asking|wondering is, “Why didn’t you want to call me?” Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating|meeting lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don’t be so [span]quick|rapid[/span] to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it’s a big mess!

3. Where were you? If he wanted you to know where he was, he’d tell you. What you’re really asking|wondering is, “Where you with another female|girl that you like better|more than me?” Your insecurity is showing, sweetie|honey. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.

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4. I love you (first) You’re saying it in the hopes that he’ll say it back, but what if he doesn’t? You’ll be devastated|destroyed and probably feel foolish|bad. Saying “I love you” is not going to speed things up if he’s not ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he’s ready.

5. Did you sleep with her? As long as he’s not sleeping|having sex with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don’t torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.

6. Are you seeing|dating anyone else? Mystery is to men what romance is to women. You’ve just indirectly| told him that you want to be exclusive, you’ve handed over control of the relationship and you’ve killed the mystery. Who knew 5 words could be so powerful|effective?

7. Where is this going? Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. Guys|Men want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s constantly|continuously worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will tell|guide you where it’s going. If it’s going somewhere, you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know it too.

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8. We need to talk. This is the equivalent of, “Go to the principal’s office”. Guys|Men know it’s not going to be a fun conversation, so they’re already on the defense. If you need to discuss|talk about something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him when he’s tired, stressed or trying to watch tv!

9. What are you thinking? What you’re really asking is: Is something wrong? Are you mad at me? Are you thinking about our relationship? Are you thinking about me? Are you thinking about someone else? If he wants you to know what he’s thinking, he’ll tell you on his own. If he doesn’t, he’ll lie when you ask.

10. I don’t trust you. What you’re actually saying is, “You need to step up your game, because I can see you’re up to something.” If he is up to something, he’ll just become even sneakier. Better to think|consider it smart and act dumb-it’ll be easier to get the evidence|proof you need to confirm your suspicions.

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Looking for your ideal relationship?

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I once read a fascinating, but all too realistic, story about a woman who opened her closet door and out tumbled various pieces of sporting equipment and memorabilia.

While these possessions represented the last decade of her life, she didn’t realize until putting them all away that she felt no connection to anything in her closet. You see, this poor woman had put aside her own interests for the hobbies of a long line of significant others. Standing before her newly straightened shelves, she recalled relationships with Partner A in the water skis, Partner B in the bicycle helmet, and Partner C with a paintball gun. She asked herself, “How could I have given up so much of myself so that nothing in my closet reflects my own interests?”

My simple answer is that she had a desire to fit in and be accepted. It’s a pretty safe bet that if a woman wants to become her partner’s ideal mate, she only needs to transform herself into that person. And it happens … again, and again, and again.

Still, we wonder, what does this cost her? And, is it fair to her significant other? Maybe, most importantly, we need to recognize that following this plan of action leads her to never finding a true ideal mate.

Like many of my coaching clients, I was raised with the unspoken messages of not asking for too much, and not being too vocal about my strengths. As a result, this upbringing and my need to be accepted after my divorce found me dating men who didn’t require much from their partner. At the same time, they didn’t offer much, either.

If you were looking for your ideal partner today, would you really be interested in someone whose only goal was to become your vision of a good mate? Would you want to spend time with someone who presented himself one way, but after the curtain was drawn, you saw something much different? Whether the person is a significant other or a female acquaintance, isn’t this image a little unsettling?

I don’t believe most women are trying to fool a mate with smoke and mirrors, but I do fear that many transform their lives to match their partner’s because they don’t yet know who they are, what their likes and dislikes are, or how to measure their goals and values.

A staggering number of women in my divorce workshops say, “I’ve given so much to my ex-husband and the family that I feel like I’m left with nothing. I couldn’t even tell you my favorite color, or what I want for dinner.” My heart immediately goes out to these women because years ago, their words were mine.

Sometimes help comes from the most unexpected places. A few weeks ago, while preparing for an appearance on an Orlando news program, I had to confront my comfortable pattern of downplaying my strengths. In the length of a short guest feature, I had to explain the ways I help women, and why I’m good at my work. This moment was significant for me, and one I will remember every time I find myself wanting to go back to that old habit of not being true to myself.

You can win in relationships and business by authentically knowing and being who you are, using the skills you bring to the table, and having a level of comfort that allows for flexibility and change.

Women shortchange themselves by jumping into relationships before taking the time to fully discover and appreciate themselves. They don’t stop to think about the characteristics they desire in a partner.

Are you looking for your ideal relationship?

Surprise—it all begins with being authentically you.

About the author:
Jennifer Snyder is the author of a self discovery workbook, The Time of Your Life: A Creative Sourcebook for Women. The Sourcebook can be ordered at http://www.timeofyourlifeafterdivorce.com

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All You Ever Wanted To Know About Open Relationships

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There are a number of different relationship types that fit under the category of “Open Relationships.” I’ll deal with swinging and polyamory.

Polyamory (many + loving) is another form of consensual non-monogamy. It’s different from swinging in that the members are usually more open to loving bonds forming outside of the core couple’s relationship. In general, sexual activity outside of the core relationship is seen as more of a relationship than “mere recreation.” In general, the polyamorous couples/triads I know want to meet and get to know potential partners before things go far.

There are also polyamorous couples who do not work with a couple model at all and just form multiple independent relationships.

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Swinging usually means, a couple who engages in sexual activities with other people. Generally|Ussualy, the swinging model places a distinction between bonds of love (shared only between the couple) and sexual activities that are open. Often, couples engage in thouse activities together.

There is a bit on an overlap between the two sets, namely with those who identify as swingers and tend to form some sort of relationship bond with those whom they play and those who identify as polyamorous and sometimes engage in sexual play without expectation of a budding relationship.

Some have claimed that open relationships show a lack of commitment. If anyone approaches it that way, the relationships will fail. To work, open relationships actually tend to require more commitment than monogamy.

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A monogamous relationship usually cannot thrive without these four qualities, but it can exist (after a fashion). A non-monogamous relationship will not survive without these qualities and commitments. Being open can enhance a strong relationship, but it will assuredly destroy an ailing one.

For a responsible non-monogamous relationship like these to work, the bonds between the core couple have to be strong. They have to have a phenomenal level of honesty (including with oneself), communication, trust, and mutual respect. They have to committed and willing to address any insecurities or misunderstandings that come up.

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Open relationships take a lot of work and commitment to function and as such it is definitely not a path for everyone. We don’t have a set of default ground rules, a set of expectations that have been reinforced by society and the media. Each person, each couple is breaking new ground and that means that there are a lot of potential traps and opportunities for growth and discovery.

For the few who are able to make open relationships work, they can be amazing relationships. It is hard for an open relationship to fall into the habitual pattern that befalls many monogamous relationships–we can’t take our partners for granted.

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7 Rules For Making The First Phone Call

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So you’ve finally scored a phone number from that girl you’ve been working up your nerve to approach. You know how important the first telephone conversation will be and your nerves are rattled.

So now what? Telephone etiquette is a central part of the general impression you eave on a woman. Indeed, many disastrous conversations could be avoided if more people would simply think before dialing. So if you are rusty, telephone challenged, or even if you have been playing the field regularly, it can’t hurt to fine-tune your game. While most supposed dating experts will give you dozens of telephone techniques to follow, I prefer to keep things simple. The seven tips below are all you need to develop a polished telephone personality and make a killer first impression.

1. Keep conversations short
Whether you are a busy corporate attorney, self-employed or even unemployed, you always want to give her the impression that you lead a full, active life. By keeping your initial telephone conversations brief, you will give her the impression that you are busy and in demand. And as an added bonus, if you are always the one finishing the conversations, it will keep you in a position of control, leaving her wanting more and more of your time.

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2. Leave on a high note
She’ll always remember what you said last. Therefore, before ending a conversation, make an effort to leave on a positive note, such as with a well thought-out joke or a funny story. Even if your entire telephone conversation went poorly, if you leave her smiling before saying goodbye, she is more likely to want to speak to you again — and hopefully see you in person — which, of course, is your ultimate goal.

3. Have a purpose to your call
Don’t just call to chitchat. I cannot stress this enough: preparation, preparation, preparation. Be armed and ready with a purpose to your call (the most likely purpose being to ask her out, of course); this will give her the impression that you are assertive and thoughtful enough to think of a plan beforehand. This plan will also serve as a backup weapon should there be an awkward silence in the conversation or if her voicemail picks up.

4. Be positive
Women might have the reputation of being natural listeners, but the truth is that she probably won’t stick around if you’re all about gloom and negativity. It doesn’t matter if your boss is disrespectful or your coworker is incompetent — complaints are a real turnoff, especially in the early stages of a relationship. You can avoid looking needy by keeping your emotional baggage to yourself, at least at the beginning. Make a concerted effort to keep all conversations positive and the griping to a minimum.

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5. Leave a message only on the second call
You should avoid leaving a message on the first call; it may make you seem too needy. Herein lies perhaps the most important, and least flexible, of all the rules: Do not think that you will elude her radar by calling from an unknown number or hanging up on her machine numerous times. If she doesn’t answer your first call, feel free to hang up without leaving a message and try again later. Upon the second phone call, you can leave a message, and don’t call again until she calls back. By not calling more than twice, you not only avoid the dreaded appearance of desperation, but you also throw the ball into her court and get the chance to gauge her interest in you (by seeing when or if she calls you back).

6. Place the call at an appropriate time
Phone calls during working hours are a complete no-no. First of all, you’ll be busted for daydreaming about her on the job — if you take time off from work to call her, she’ll know she’s very much on your mind. Secondly, she might not be as receptive to your phone call with her coworkers or boss in her midst. If you’d like to set up a date for the weekend, call by Wednesday. Avoid Friday and Saturday night phone calls at all cost; even if you are at home with your dog watching have to know that.

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7. Leave coherent messages
Don’t leave long, rambling messages on her voicemail. Picture this: Every message you leave on her voicemail could potentially be played back and analyzed several times over. Your tone and choice of wording could be used as points of discussion with her friends. Therefore, your best defense against a disastrous message is brevity. Identify yourself by name (especially in the early stages of getting to know her, don’t just say, “It’s me”), then get to the point (for example, ask her if she is available on Friday). Leave one phone number where you can be reached, but don’t leave your contact number, address, e-mail, and so on — this will just seem too desperate.

Why introduce steadfast telephone rules into the world of dating? If you haven’t already been convinced by what you’ve read, the answer is very simple: You achieve better results.

Many of us — men and women alike — who are in pursuit of a romantic interest have a tendency to forget about rules and follow our hearts. Sadly, even good intentions can result in countless unanswered calls, and consequently, a severe blow to one’s dignity. All this can be avoided if you are consistent about implementing the above tips. Within no time, your sophisticated telephone persona will surely stir her curiosity.
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10 Things You Shouldn’t Say To Your Girlfriend

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1. I’ll call you tonight at 8pm. Do NOT give a specific time or date of when you will be calling unless you’re going to do it. If you say you will call tonight, we are expecting a call tonight. Not calling will set off all sorts of alarms that will lead to us not trusting you. You’re not sure when you will call, you can say something like, “I’ll talk to you later.”

2. Did you gain weight? Does this one really need an explanation? You shouldn’t even say this jokingly, even if your girlfriend is stick thin. Just as you don’t want to hear anything about your “size”, women don’t want to hear about their weight.

3. How old are you? – If the woman appears to be anywhere near 30, do not ask her age. If you really need to know, you can make an educated guess from other information she gives you, such as when she graduated from college. If however, she appears to be under 20, you absolutely must ask, so as to make sure she is of legal age!

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4. You remind me of my mother. Do not compare your mother to your girlfriend unless you’ve made it clear that you absolutely adore your mother and think the world of her.

5. She’s hot! We want to think that, at least in your eyes, we are the hottest woman on the planet. Pointing out that someone else is sexy will not earn you any points. We don’t want to know if you think anyone else is hot, so zip it!

6. She’s just a friend. Yeah right. If she’s attractive and single we see her as a threat. If she really is just a friend, let us know the reason why. Is it because she’s not your type, she has a boyfriend, she has an annoying personality? We like to be sure that you’re not secretly into your “friend”.

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7. I love you – If you don’t mean it, you’ll be opening Pandora’s Box. We do not take this statement lightly. We are waiting for you to say it and when you do, we assume that the relationship is moving to the next level. If you’re not ready for it, then don’t utter these three little words until you are.

8. Keep in touch/Call me. What the hell is that supposed to mean? That you don’t plan on ever calling us again? That you want us to call you next time? That you’re unsure how we feel about you and you want to see if we’ll call? There’s too much room for misinterpretation here, so just don’t use either of these ambiguous expressions. Your job is to call, our job is to wear the high heels.

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9. Did we have plans? Oh no you didn’t! If we’ve made plans to get together, we’ve been looking forward to it all day. We’ve been thinking about how to dress and how to do our hair. Don’t rain on our parade by being dumb enough to forget or there will be hell to pay.

19. I don’t use condoms. That’s nice. We don’t want an STD. Condoms are a fact of life in today’s society, so unless you’ve been tested and plan to be monogamous, start using them.

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Why Women Prefer Bad Boys

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Women say they want a nice guy, yet usually end up dating bad boys. Here’s why:

Not real: Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real”. Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart.

Mother Nature: Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved.

Sperm wars: Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave.

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Sex: Women feel a nice guy aren’t be good in bed. They like to be manhandled sometimes and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to get the job done, even though that it’s not always be the case.

Charm: Nice guys don’t always know what to say, and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go.

Protection: Historically, men have protected women – physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren’t so sure.

Respect: No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect = No attraction.

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Fixer-Upper: Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they will “make” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.

Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing it. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re unfamiliar with.

Hot: Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot”.

Predictable: Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and unpredictable. Bad boys are always challenging. Nice guys are never challegning. Predictable = No excitement = No challenge = I prefer a bad boy.

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Fear of intimacy: If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary.

Life is about balance. Most|Many[/spin] men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones.

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What You Shouldn’t Say To A Guy

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1. When will I see you again? You’ll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he’ll let you know. If not, next. You don’t have time for anyone that doesn’t have time for you.

2. Where were you? If he wanted you to know where he was, he’d tell you. What you’re really asking is, “Where you with another female that you like better than me?” Your insecurity is showing, sweetie. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.

3. Did you sleep with her? As long as he’s not sleeping with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don’t torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.

4. Where is this going? Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s constantly worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it’s going. If it’s going somewhere, you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know it too.

5. What are you thinking? What you’re really asking is: Is something wrong? Are you mad at me? Are you thinking about our relationship? Are you thinking about me? Are you thinking about someone else? If he wants you to know what he’s thinking, he’ll tell you on his own. If he doesn’t, he’ll probably lie when you ask.

6. Why didn’t you call? There’s only one answer to this question: Because he didn’t want to!!! What you’re really asking is, “Why didn’t you want to call me?” Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don’t be so quick to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it’ll be a big mess!

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7. I love you (first) You’re saying it in the hopes that he’ll say it back, but what if he doesn’t? You’ll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying “I love you” is not going to speed things up if he’s not ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he’s ready.

8. Are you seeing anyone else? Mystery is to men what romance is to women. You’ve just indirectly told him that you want to be exclusive, you’ve handed over control of the relationship and you’ve killed the mystery. Who knew 5 words could be so powerful?

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9. We need to talk. This is the equivalent of, “Go to the principal’s office”. Guys know it’s not going to be a fun conversation, so they’re already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him when he’s tired, stressed or trying to watch tv!

10. I don’t trust you. What you’re actually saying is, “You need to step up your game, because I can see you’re up to something.” If he is up to something, he’ll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-it’ll be easier to get the evidence you need to confirm your suspicions.

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A Place For Awesome Relationship Advice

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Dating in an unorganized environment is relatively quick, you wouldn’t take much more than 15 minutes to meet someone and find out all about them. You can ask any amount of questions you want and it may only take a minute or so, but the longer you spend in conversation the more likely that you two will both want to be friends and get to know each other. You would get a general idea as to whether or not you would get along just through your questions. When attempting to conduct Survey Dating, you ask your questions through, which is the most logical way for asking a stranger a list of questions.

Everybody’s questions should be different, entertaining and creative. The interest comes from what questions you would choose to ask your date and how they answer them. Dating can display each others’ creativity and wit, rather than just having a conversation ad lib. You would also be able to write notes on your date’s answers.

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Dating is almost the same to speed dating in concept, although speed dating involves people actually going out of their wayto meet people in an organized environment and is fast. If you’ve ever been to a speed dating night, you’ll only meet that person for a few minutes and get a first impression, and then move onto somebody else.

You can find out straight away whether or not the other person is interested in talking from whether they even decide to participate. If the questions in the survey are asked honestly, it comes across as genuine and interesting, especially if the other person has an interest in your subject. It creates an interest in the other person if
all of the questions in the survey are asked about them, as the favorite topic of anybody’s conversation if themselves. Dating is a new way of meeting people, and can be used by anybody. So try giving somebody a survey and see what they are like.

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Dating involves having a list of organized questions and writing down your own answers from somebody you just met. You can ask whatever you like. You don’t have to tell the other person that you’re interested in him on a romantic level when asking your questions, although a romantic level will probably be thought of half way through the survey. What you can do is say you are just collecting information for whatever reason and are using their responses for your own agenda.

Dating can be applied to a speed dating environment. A speed dating environment will have dates that last for 3-8 minutes. You can use Dating by having a list of open ended questions to ask your date. The questions asked and the answers given will determine if the couple are a match at the end of the night. You ask one open ended question per minute of allocated time, so if the date lasted for six minutes, three open ended questions would come from the guy and three open ended questions would come from the girl.

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Dating, It gives the new concept of meeting people through making surveys. It tells of the benefits of Dating and how Dating can be used. Dating is a new concept. It involves asking people a series of questions in order to gain an knowledge of their personality, as well as acquiring friendships through conversation.

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Find Awesome Dating Tips

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Relationships are the basic part of any human being’s life. They can be of any types like relationship between parents and children, friends, lovers and many others which sometimes cannot be explained.

Relationships normally need work. It may have started with an overwhelming feeling of love for one another, but then again, keeping that love is a totally different thing.

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Relationship experts say that communication is one of have to understand what we are looking for in the perfect mate before we can recognize whether or not we have found him.

The best part with mathematics is that whenever you ask a questions, the answer will be permanent forever, 1+1 will remain 2 until your grand-children die but in relationship, we cannot assume this, things changes everyday. You will not provide the same answer or emotion to someone on a day you fell good like on a day you’re sad or angry, people change every second, that’s why their answers change everyday.

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Sexual intimacy does not necessarily include sexual intercourse. In deciding whether to engage in intimate sexual relations, you should consider cultural, ethical, religious, moral, and psychological factors as well physical ones.

Sex can come naturally and often, if there is enough love. Sex, sexual conquest, sexual release becomes a powerful force. Acting on the sexual impulse is a frequent activity.

Harnessing this during sex helps the individual to climax more magnificently. Second, the practice enables to release muscle tension, which, in turn, rocks the body for full-body orgasms.

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It is important to remember that safer sex is also about feeling safe with your sexualpartner and in control of the situation. Remember alcohol and drugs can lead to situations where you may lose control.

Sex therapy is your way out when you think your relationship faltering on the physical satisfaction front. Sexual therapy is however not at all restricted to sorting out the problems of couples.

Good sex and good relationships are vital in all of our lives and they’re an important aspect of satisfaction for most people. We’re hoping that our website GirlsTeachGuys.com will get you thinking and talking about sex and relationships.

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Many Great Love Tips

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Relationship advice issues such as possessiveness, obsessiveness, high maintenance, in laws, fear, and red flags, can all stand in the way of the success of a relationship. The videos, message boards and articles located on this site will provide tips on relationships and help answer tough relationship questions and provide ways to make your love and relationships HOT and meaningful again!

Relationships deserve and need that same kind of energy and commitment to build and deepen skill. Investing in your “relationship intelligence” can pay enormous dividends for you, and for all the people in your life. Well-developed emotional intelligence skills are a better predictor of success in all areas of life (and particularly in relationships) than the traditional measurement of high cognitive intelligence, or IQ.

Great Relationship Tips

As painful as a relationship can be as it’s ending, the experience can be a source of profound learning and personal growth. I’ve learned as the years goes by, just when you are getting comfortable, life will throw something at you which challenges that comfort.

Relationship always involves a strong desire to be with. A relationship will fade if we have no continuing interest in spending time with the other person, or connect with him.

Relationships, if nurtured and handled right, will seldom end up in the trash can. It is meaningful and worthwhile work in a world where human connection is the one of the main things we all long for and the one thing, money can’t buy.

Relationships can be one of the best — and most challenging — parts of your world. They can be full of fun, romance, excitement, intense feelings, and occasional heartache, too.

The key to every relationship is TRUST, if you trust your partner, for example in a marrige, and that trust is mutual, your relationship will probably last . If there is no trust among you, and you are not honest with each other, your relationship won’t survive the test of time.

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Strengthen your relationships by practicing good listening skills that will allow you to support friends and loved ones who are facing stress and crisis. Being a good listener yourself will probably bring you a supportive ear when needed, and will strengthen your relationships and circle of friends.

A longer-lasting relationship starts right at the beginning. In other words, the most crucial time for a battery’s life is dependent upon whether it’s set up correctly when you buy it , either with a brand-new bike, or as a brand-new battery after your last love lost its charge.

Every romantic relationship has its ups and downs. Just about everyone can use a helpful relationship tip or some sound relationship advice from time to time. Relationships are always a bad thing.

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Beauty and Romance in Latin Dating

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Latin culture is one that is embedded with traditions, values and celebrations, Like any other society. Of all the different attributes that are associated with Latino’s, there is no question that passion and romance are considered to be two of the most intriguing.

If you are of Latin descent and are interested in seeking a relationship with another Latin man or woman, there are many ways you can go about creating the perfect romantic dating experience, that both you and your date should be able to enjoy with no strings attached.

The following are a few ideas of how you can create romance on your dates:

Dinner - Dinner is always a perfect dating choice, because you can make it as casual or romantic as you would like it to be. It all depends on where you go, and the way you act during the meal. If you are interested in being romantic at dinner, listen intently to what your date has to say, take his or her hand from across the table, look them in the eyes and be honest when you express yourself. However, you should keep in mind that romance can be interpreted as an invitation to sex, or even make the other person feel uncomfortable if they are interested in taking it slow. Therefore, be a tasteful romantic and know when to draw the line. For although you want to capture your date’s interest, you don’t want to make them feel uncomfortable in the process.

Dancing - Dancing is a great way for you to have fun, while still getting to know and remaining close to your date. Going to a club, or attending Latin dancing is how you can keep the romance freely escalating without having any further expectations hanging in the air.

Walking - You would be surprised to discover the power behind a nice leisurely walk. There is something truly magical about making nature apart of your date. Although not everyone is fortunate enough to have a beach close to them, there is sure to be parks, waterfronts and old fashioned neighbourhoods awaiting your footsteps. Holding hands and talking on an evening stroll, watching the sunset in silence, and gazing up at the stars, are just some of the ways you can use simple beauty to add to the romantic atmosphere of your date.

Due to the fact that traditions are an important part of Latin culture, dating someone of your same ethnic background is usually a plus when it comes to family relations, especially if you are interested in perusing a serious relationship with your dating partner.

Nevertheless, despite your dating intentions, there are many ways you can make your dating experience a beautiful time that you can truly enjoy who knows where a little romance can take you.

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Find Great Sex Tips

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An excellent dating tip is to relax: breathe in and breathe out. Men and women , if you think you are poor at dating and you need to add some spark to your love life, then I’ve got some brilliant romantic dating tips for you. And trust me, these dating tips for singles will enlighten your love life, if you follow them sincerely. Another Capricorn dating tip: A Capricorn loves solid, responsible, serious, authoritative, and intelligent people. Be yourself, don’t put on an act.

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Another great online dating tip for men is to thoroughly check out her profile before you send the email. That way you may be able to get an insight as to what she she likes and be able to touch upon something in her profile. We here at Girls Teach Guys want to help you succeed in the game of love. Not that it should be a game, but come on–we all know it is.

Romance Tips For Guys

This is a gooddating tip for the ladies. Finally, many dating tips for men focused on the notion that chivalry is not dead. It does not matter how “liberated” a woman has become, she still likes her man to open the door for her. Dating tips for men can cover a variety of issues, and mean different thing to different people.

While dating within a social circle may work for some high school couples, an important high school dating tip is to meet new people outside of one’s typical social circle. One way to do this is to go to high school events that are different from what one usually does. Lots of guys sadly can open, date, but have no idea how to break away from the FRIEND ZONE. In other words, thy simply doesn’t know how to get physically intimate or sexual escalate. Dating tips are just that - tips, they are not promises written in stone and different things will work differently for different people. However, I have noticed that there are some threads of advice that keep cropping up.

Relationship Tips

These are very important dating tips for women that if you pay attention to will allow you to quickly move up the scales to getting that next hot date. Apply this dating tip and enjoy a successful date. If you are in love with your date then this caring attitude of yours will be an added advantage.

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Psychology of Dating: Little-Known Dating Secrets

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Dating is not just about socialization. Believe it or not, there is a science behind it. Understanding the psychology of dating can be pretty handy, especially if you don’t want to waste your time on bad blind dates.

If you’re a dating expert, then you probably know what indicators to look for. However, if you find yourself striking out date after date after date, then you’re going to love reading about the psychology of dating.

Eye Contact

It’s all about the eye contact. When you’re in a bar, try to be more observant of the person you’re trying to attract.

If one of them initiates eye contact with you, smiles and then looks down, then that individual is definitely interested.

However, if he or she looks at you and then turns away while their head is still at normal level, basic psychology of dating is saying you have very little or no chance, and he or she is looking for a better offer.

This method will allow you to know who is most willing to go out on a date with you.

Body Language

Around 60% to 75% of communication is non-verbal, so your action speaks volumes about you. And sometimes, it doesn’t even matter if you have very few things to say, as long as you’re able to convey the right gestures and body movements.

If you’re nervous, your body will give you away. For example, you might experience trembling of hands or find yourself unable to smile genuinely.

If you’re confident, your body will surely let the other person know too. According to the psychology of dating, your voice will probably be the first to give you away.

So use this to your advantage and try becoming more conscious of the signals you send to your partner. Or you can be more observant of their body language.

These are just some components of the psychology of dating. Try to evaluate yourself and see where you stand. Maybe next time, you can use your knowledge of dating and avoid the constant hit and miss strategies many people use.


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